Sunday, 16 June 2013

Zindagi- the cycle


When we pass on  a moment, we just dont admire its importance but when it is lost somewhere into the midst of time, we regret that we let it go. Those moments sometimes change your life completely and you are no more the same person you were used to be. You will come across many people who later on in their lives keeps recalling the times they were awesome, and they could have become the best.

Also life has this weird nature that the things or the people we leave or dump has the tendency to bounce back again somewhere at later parts, and in most unexpected ways, ways even you couldn't imagine. And at that time everything seems subtle, the complete equilibrium is found in between tornado of thoughts. The thoughts of past come hovering you, and apologies are there, but no one to listen or forgive. You feel heavy. The burden overshadows your charisma.

Now the question arises, how to overcome this situation? Is it even possible? How can we change the past?
Well, yes! its possible, although you cant change your past but do something in the present that gives you happiness. Take things on! live it, may be it is again the moment that life has offered you to live again, the moment you regretted earlier. Yes you have to make arrangements, but who wont, in return to calmness, satisfaction, love, and happiness.

Not all the people are lucky enough to recast what they have done earlier, not every one gets this beautiful chance, not everyone is so lucky to have someone love them so specially and deeply. There is a line in a famous Hindi Bollywood song of movie 'kal ho na ho', "aisa jo koi kahi hai, bus wo hi sabse hasin hai,, us hath ko, tum tham lo,,, wo mehrbaan, kal ho na hoo". This in English is meant that if there is someone like that, then he's the most beautiful person on the planet, go grab that hand, who knows if he'll be still there tomorrow.

This life is a cycle, round and round, just age goes on, but things repeats, first to your parents, then to you, next to your children, to your grand children and so on, keeps on repeating generation to generation.